I was perusing marxists.org and found Malcolm X and clicked on his profile and listened to the audio versions of a couple of his speeches and I found "Racists in Reverse?" In it he levels a very eloquent response to combating violence against black people, you don't respond to violence with kindness anymore than you respond to a Chinese person in Swahili. The forces in power will not relinquish them because you stood outside the White House and starved yourself. You can light yourself on fire all you like, you're content for the news. Speak their language, respond in kind.